Thursday, November 5, 2009

BDSM/D&s yes .. but

BDSM/D&s yes .. but

but what drives it .. the compelling question !
PLAY, KINK, or REAL NEED ??

And yours? The path may lead through all
three in search of destiny and and fulfillment.

MystressWorld has modified its Program
with four new levels of Study ..

for adult submales                 
Starter  *  Novice  *  Explorer  *  Free Agent                              

for aspiring Dommes
 Academy  *  Novice  *  Explorer  *  Free Agent

Thursday, October 22, 2009

The MystressWorld Domme Corps.. on Penetration

The MystressWorld Domme Corps is comprised 
of the women whom Mystress mentors in her
philosphies of D&s FemDom.


Bright women, educated and accomplished in
their own careers, most over 35, and all
desiring to add one or more adult submales
(boys) to their permanent stables for the long
haul of life, for the betterment of life for all.   


Together we train boys who possess that real
need and respect for strong feminine authority
(or want to find out if they do, indeed).   In the
porcess,  Mystress learns also.


MsLee (15690 OR) is an esteemed member of
the Domme Corps, and knows what she wants
and has the ability to express herself vividly
and concisely as you will soon see.


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Introduction:


This is a topic near and dear to Me. I love it. 
For Me, penetrating a boy brings to Me a level
of personal ecstasy that I cannot begin to
describe, and I find that feeling and the control
very addicting.   Penetration of a boy by a
Dominant Woman can happen in a variety of
ways, using a variety of objects.  I am not here
to cover them all for anyone; I am simply
discussing two My favorites, and these in an
extremely limited manner.


The Dildo:


I love using a strap-on harness equipped with a
bit larger than average dildo.  Mine is black,
7 " long, 2 full inches in diameter, and that
makes it more than 6 inches in circumference. 
I've at times and with the right boy, used a
much larger dildo in length and diameter.  Yes,
I love to fill a boy up and make his ass entirely
mine, and I find it yet one of the many ways
that I can effectively and irrevocably bind a
boy to Me.   


Yes, I said "irrevocably", because once they
have been so-taken by Me, they never forget
it and they may both fear and crave to have
the experience again. 


For them it is both the agony of defeat and
the thrill of victory in one fantastically-fulfilling
event, all at the same time.  Yes, my favorite
thing to do is to take him roughly.  I love to hear 
him squeal like a pig and see his knees buckle
(as he is standing and bent over something, like
the back of My couch) and to watch his thighs
shake and quiver.  Mmmmm ..


I've also had a boy on his hands and knees,
entered deeply and stayed there, then leaned
My body over his bare back, hard nipples
brushing his skin,  put my lips to his ear, and
whisper to him to beg Me to fuck him and take
him any way I deem fit.  


Do I deliver?   Sometimes. Sometimes, I find
it is best, depending on the circumstances, to
leave him wanting, panting with heat and desire,
and earn the fuck he so badly desires from Me. 

How long does he have to wait?   It depends
entirely on My agenda and mood - anywhere
from a few seconds  to a few days or more.


I am big fan of combining my My strap-on use
with something else -- a striped ass after 
caning, wrist and ankle cuffs, rope, cage, or
whatever manner of restraint I feel like utilizing. 

If he has the physical stamina for it, I also like
a boy being bound and tied into a tight ball,  so
that I can penetrate him him in whatever
manner I wish, while he is utterly helpless to so
much as twitch.  


Note the theme with the strap-on use:  utter
domination by Myself and utter submission on
the boy's part to me.


Take it, take it, boy, and learn to not only love
it, but want it - regularly in a variety of ways.  
Can I make it last - good or bad?  You bet I can. 


Can I make it rough?  Without a doubt.  Can I
also make it feel so good for you that when I'm
done using you, you are left as MY aching,
throbbing, quivering bitch? Of course, I can.


However, I'm nowhere near stupid.  The size
dildo I use on a boy will depend on two factors: 
his experience in being penetrated and My
benevolence.   Consider this:  I have no wish to
cause damage -- discomfort and pain mixed
with intense pleasure, yes.  Damage, no. 


Training is ineffective if I cannot continue to
train and I can't train with a dildo if you're
damaged.   Also, that discomfort and pain that
I mentioned does NOT have to be accompanied
by pleasure, and to be sure, I can deliver a
telling difference without causing damage.  you
will have no doubts as to whether you are being
corrected (punished), rewarded, or trained,
simply by how I take you. 


The Butt Plug:


On the back of filling a boy up, I love the butt
plug.  But not alone, oh no.  A butt plug, along
with a harness. This way, the plug stays in place
and allows some freedom of movement.  A boy
can still stand, walk, sit, and bend, generally
freeing him to do whatever it is that I may
require of him, whether that be chores,
performance in some manner for my personal
entertainment or pleasure, or on display in
front of an audience of my choosing.  


Additionally, I love the use of the butt plug
combined with a chastity device, when I'm
receiving OSODD or cucklolding him.


Again, this can and will have variants, such
as restraint of some type, possibly removal of
some sense such as sight, speech, or hearing. 


Where is the lesson here ?   It is the fact that
you will be taken, hard and often if you belong
to me.   In fact, a boy does not truly belong to
me until I have taken him hard and deep.  And,
if he has been taken by a previous owner, then
it is quite encumbent upon me to take him even
harder and deeper than he's ever had it before,
to make my point, and to establish my control
and ownership. 


The further lesson here is for my sisters of the
Domme Corps -- develop your own style, but
do not overlook the power of penetration.  


It so expands your power and deepens his 
submission, all at the same time.


As Mystress says:
      "own the boy's ass, and own the boy".   


Believe it !


Ms Lee (15690 OR)


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There you have it from Ms Lee, an esteemed
member of the MystressWorld Domme Corps. 

She is typical of the Corps in many respects.  
Prime Age (over 35) vanilla single by choice,
attractive good looks, a well maintained body,
strong mothering instincts, well-educated, and
with a successful career of accomplishment in
the vanilla world.


She came to the MystressWorld Mentoring
Program to hone and develop her own natural
instincts of dominance and to absorb the
philosophies, after having become frustrated
by the plethora of players that "play" on the
Internet.  


She, like the rest of the Domme Corps, has
real, natural, and intense desires to better
control her own life through the benefical
control, guidance, nurturing, and usage of 
"good boy" adult submales.


Not for a "session", not for "play", but for
life and the betterment of that life for both
herself .. and the boy.


Want to know more ..
     contact me at YesMystress@yahoo.com

     or visit the Training (web) Site at
       http://MystressWorld.com/IP.asp

Semper Fem !


Mystress


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Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Another Suckcess Story .. sara's story

MW Suckcess Stories .. sara's story


MystressWorld prepares boys for long term IP
service. It could be with a member of the MW
Domme Corps, it could a third party local
woman who will recognize his newly developed
submissiveness, or it could be at home .. his own wife.

Let me share another of our Suckcess Stories,
one of the third type. This concerns a boy, a boy
named sara*, who had been with us for not very
long, but long enough to produce this result.

he wrote, this week:

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"Dearest Mystress,

i am writing on orders from my new Wife Mistress. i know that You will be
glad to hear that my Wife found my account and after getting into it has taken
over my life and training.

She ordered me to write this message so that You would know. i felt that
since it was Your site, guidance, and counseling that allowed this to take
place that we needed to tell you.

She was elated to learn of my true nature and how she could use that to
advantage, but nonetheless said that I had to be punished for gaving done
this behind her back (under her radar).

She found the site, and figured out my MW yahoo password easily enough.

Little did I realize that she had been cucking me for months, i just was too
stupid to see it. So seeing that i was serious about this, She decided that
She would take greater and overt control.

When i came home from work on Friday she was ready with her Real Man
with her. In minutes i was on my knees, naked before both of them. She
then tied my hands and Master Michael laid me over a chair's back my ass
in the air. My wife then administered a punishment whipping. i was crying
like the sissy that i am when she was finished and i now have black a blue
marks from the punishements this weekend. i love them, the pain i feel
now naked kneeling before the computer my Wife Mistress watching me
write. Tthis is so wonderful, thank you Mystress.

i was then dragged into the bedroom where Master Michael made love to
my Wife, It was humiliating seeing my own wife being fucked by another
man, but as you predicted Mystress it made me hard. And, wee as I am,
they both noticed it (he is quite large) and laughed at me and they both
add insulting remarks about my hard little cock and what that meant.

He was fucking my wife and all I could do was kneel by the bed, hands
behind my back and watch, as I was ordered to do.

It was humiliating, both the fucking and my hard little cock, so I closed
my eyes, I could not take it any longer.

Big mistake.

A resounding, stinging slap and when I opened my eyes, his big, dripping,
throbbing cock was right in my face .. looking the size of a baseball bat, it
was so close. "eyes open, boy" he said with a little laugh, "this is your
sex from now on". Lick it ! I did and my own cock throbbed because i
could taste my own wife on his cock.

He was good and brought her to two rolling orgasms, then i was orderd
and forced to clean them both up. To my surprise, the taste was familiar,
and when I was finished with her (she tapped my head and tugged on my
ears to signal) and started for him, I discovered that watching me had made
him big and hard again, just as you said it would, Mystress. .

After he fucked her again, I was ordered to clean him up and I did. My wife
laughed and took a picture of me with his big cock in my mouth. She said
that would help me to be a good boy for them. he said I was as good as
some real girls who had serviced him before.

This time, he stayed and took his place in my bed and I was banished to
the guest room. On Saturday morning, i was called to the master bedroom,
i assumed to watch again. But this time, while my wife watched, I was orered
to suck Master Mike. he took my head in his hands and literally mouth-fucked
me to orgasm, and then tiled my head back until I swallowed his cum. My
wife was quick to point out that I was hard and she could not refrain from noting
that he was several times larger than me.

i cleaned the house, was punished for not doing a good enough job, then taken
shopping. i no longer have male underwear, and the new frilly panties make me
feel like the little slut slave they have made me into, just like you said could
happen, Mystress.

She also told me that the taste was familiar because she had been putting me
down only after being fucked by Master Mike for some time, now.

He certainly fits the descriptiuon of how you described a "Real Man".

There is more, she just told me that I am a clean-up boy and that she is my
MotherMistress, she picked that up from the site.

i just want to say Thank You again, Mystress. I am so happy that i have found
my destiny, right here at home with my MotherMistress, for the rest of my life.

She has allowed me to keep my new name, she likes it, and thanks you for
giving it to me.

With need and respect,

sara*  "

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There you have it, another Suckcess story, a true
"tastiemonial" from a happy boy, a MystressWorld boy.

It is not that unusual for a boy's training in MystressWorld
to trigger rises in his own wife's internal Domme-within.

We call it the "Vacuum of Power" and the wife's sudden rise
can be great surprise to her as well, or it may be her go-ahead
signal to use him as she has always wanted to, anyway.

Are you a needful boy, wishing that this boy was you,
that you were a MystressWorld "lab specimen"?

Are you a woman, aspiring for the Domme Corps ?

Semper Fem,

Mystress

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

What is a submale ?



Just what is a submale?

There are many definitions and
understandings.

Understood differently by different Dommes
and submales.

Better understanding is a valid goal.

To that end ..

"A submale is an adult male who has a deep
inner need and respect for strong feminine
authority".

If a male does not have this trait, he is not a
submale, and will make a very poor servant
to a Domme .. his desire to serve will last
only as long as his hard-on does, and then
wilt just like a flaccid, whimp cock.   

In fact, some will feign submissiveness in the
hope that this posture will bring them free,
kinky sex. The terms "scene", "into",
"role-play", "topping from the bottom" and
such are often the keys to separating the
pretenders from the real boys.

A boy for our purposes is an adult submale.

For any male, especially the submale, the
major male-female difference is that whereas
he has a cock and balls .. she has a wonderful
opening which functions for many purposes
and is often simply referred to as her "pussy",
"yoni", or her "temple".  Exact distinctions
and functions are not important to his seeing
this feminine feature as the major difference ..
and therefore "the pussy, HER PUSSY, her
TEMPLE, becomes the object of his worship
and need.

Hence, I refer to a common, unfurther-defined
submale as a "pussy boy". 

pussy boy is submale and is searching for
his true and ultimate destiny. 

It is quite possible that he can further defined,
and that is what we going to explore.

So what is your likely destiny?

I have identified at least five.

BB: the Bad Boy
BD: the Bitch Dog
MB: the Mommie's Boy
SB:  the Sissy Boy
SS:  the (cuckold) Sex Slave

Perhaps there are more .. perhaps you
(submale or Domme) will have ideas to
share with us in this respect.


Sometimes there is great overlap among the
five classifications .. but for each one, there
is a core need that so-identifies the submale.


In future postings, we will explore these
various submale types.

Semper Fem,

Mystress

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Sunday, September 27, 2009

Mystressworld .. D&s Femdom according to Mystress

MystressWorld reflects the D&s FemDom
philosophies of Mystress, its founder and
matriarch.

It does not cater to all who profess interest in

what is commonly referred to as D&s.

There are at least four distinct "interests" which

all purport to be D&s, that is, Domination &
submission where the female is dominant and
the male submissive.

Type 1 is "real need" coupled with respect for

Strong Feminine Authority for the submale. 
For the Type 1 woman, well .. she is that Strong
Feminine Authority with a deep-rooted, natural
and instinctive desire to train, discipline, and
use the needful boy (adult male).

She is indeed that Strong Feminine Authority

that he yearns to serve and please.

Type 2 is recreational play where participants

play games of pretend this and that and even
switch roles sometimes.   The lexicon of the
recreational player makes the distinction very
clear.  Key words are - play, into, scenes,
role-playing, toys, bottom, top, and switch.  
For this group, it is a game, as in "we played
Charades last time, let's play D&s tonight,
it's your turn to be the top and play like ..".   


Thus the term "recreational play".

Type 3 concerns the female who "plays" for

income production, and the male for whom
D&s means "kinky sex".  The female is
referred to as a "pro-domme", which is a
misnomer, because she she provides services
for the male of a sensual-sexual nature which
are tailored to his interests and requests. This,
of course,raises the question of just who is
serving whom ! 

PseudoDomme might be a better term for the

Type 3 female.

The Type 3 male is typically a self-centered

egotistic pigmale who uses the service of the
so-called pro-domme, much as it might engage
the services of a prostitute, call girl, etc.

Type 4 is the pure fantasy-freak.  Dangerous

and demented.   key words are such as "feces,
castration, snuff, blood, needles, etc".  To be
avoided by all sane persons.


Mystress caters to Type 1 interest only, and

makes no judgements about those who identify
with type 2 or type 3.  Type 2 is fine, as long as
all players are "players", indeed".    The type 3
female serves a purpose for the type 3 male, as
has been the case throughout history for the
"oldest profession".


A type 1 adult submale has both need and
respect for strong feminine authority.


The, underlying point is that if a "real need"
person (Type 1) interacts with a Type 2, 3 
"opposite" the result will have no lasting value,
and will be disappointing, if not harmful as
well.   There is no mental, emotional connect
because the type 2 woman was just "playing"
and the type 3 woman will have no further
interest until he, the customer, has more
money.


Play is fine when both or all parties are
players, indeed.

However, it is QUITE TRUE that sometime

what starts seemingly as play or kink may
actually be real need, disguised or simply
unrecognized.  Thus, exploration may be
needed.    People learn about D&s in
various ways and that is all they know in
the beginning.

So how does the MystressWorld Program

work ?

Simple .. Mystress mentors women with

that natural Type 1 motivation, and together
we train "real need" Type 1 boys (our lab
specimens) as a vehicle for learning and
development for both Domme and boy.


It is both education and preparation. 

The adult submale, also referred to as a boy,

is being prepared for service to (a) perhaps
a woman of the MystressWorld Domme Corps,
the women whom Mystress mentors, or
(b) a woman, who perhaps lives close to him,
who will recognize his newly developed
submissive traits and take action to acquire
him, or (C) perhaps the woman already in his
life, his wife.   Even if she knows nothing
about D&s or his training, the "vacuum
of power" that results from his training often
causes a rise in whatever natural
domme-within that she may possess.

The MystressWorld Domme is free to "take

home" her best students and incorporate
them into her real-life, in person, on a
part-time, regular, or live-in basis.   Many 
are looking for subhusband brides.  The
lives of both are benefited by what we call
the "D&s REALationship".

All aspire to ultimately take one or more

boys into their personal lives on an
"in-person, for life" basis, and many have
done just that. 


Type 2, 3, and 4 persons would simply not
relate to the MystressWorld philosophies.  
Often however, they seek to enroll and
sometimes become angry that they are not
accepted for enrollment.  Most of the
occasional negative commentary comes from
indivduals who have never been enrolled
in the Program !

One such outburst was actually posted on a

"pro-domme" website that included prices for
phone-sex and sessions .. go figure ! 


Peace to all, and welcome to those who feel
the real need to nurture and be nutured. It is
truly wired into their very DNA.


Semper Fem,


Mystress


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