Mystressworld .. D&s Femdom according to Mystress

MystressWorld reflects the D&s FemDom
philosophies of Mystress, its founder and
matriarch.

It does not cater to all who profess interest in
what is commonly referred to as D&s.

There are at least four distinct "interests" which
all purport to be D&s, that is, Domination &
submission where the female is dominant and
the male submissive.

Type 1 is "real need" coupled with respect for
Strong Feminine Authority for the submale. 
For the Type 1 woman, well .. she is that Strong
Feminine Authority with a deep-rooted, natural
and instinctive desire to train, discipline, and
use the needful boy (adult male).

She is indeed that Strong Feminine Authority
that he yearns to serve and please.

Type 2 is recreational play where participants
play games of pretend this and that and even
switch roles sometimes.   The lexicon of the
recreational player makes the distinction very
clear.  Key words are - play, into, scenes,
role-playing, toys, bottom, top, and switch.  
For this group, it is a game, as in "we played
Charades last time, let's play D&s tonight,
it's your turn to be the top and play like ..".   


Thus the term "recreational play".

Type 3 concerns the female who "plays" for
income production, and the male for whom
D&s means "kinky sex".  The female is
referred to as a "pro-domme", which is a
misnomer, because she she provides services
for the male of a sensual-sexual nature which
are tailored to his interests and requests. This,
of course,raises the question of just who is
serving whom ! 

PseudoDomme might be a better term for the
Type 3 female.

The Type 3 male is typically a self-centered
egotistic pigmale who uses the service of the
so-called pro-domme, much as it might engage
the services of a prostitute, call girl, etc.

Type 4 is the pure fantasy-freak.  Dangerous
and demented.   key words are such as "feces,
castration, snuff, blood, needles, etc".  To be
avoided by all sane persons.


Mystress caters to Type 1 interest only, and
makes no judgements about those who identify
with type 2 or type 3.  Type 2 is fine, as long as
all players are "players", indeed".    The type 3
female serves a purpose for the type 3 male, as
has been the case throughout history for the
"oldest profession".


A type 1 adult submale has both need and
respect for strong feminine authority.


The, underlying point is that if a "real need"
person (Type 1) interacts with a Type 2, 3 
"opposite" the result will have no lasting value,
and will be disappointing, if not harmful as
well.   There is no mental, emotional connect
because the type 2 woman was just "playing"
and the type 3 woman will have no further
interest until he, the customer, has more
money.


Play is fine when both or all parties are
players, indeed.

However, it is QUITE TRUE that sometime
what starts seemingly as play or kink may
actually be real need, disguised or simply
unrecognized.  Thus, exploration may be
needed.    People learn about D&s in
various ways and that is all they know in
the beginning.

So how does the MystressWorld Program
work ?

Simple .. Mystress mentors women with
that natural Type 1 motivation, and together
we train "real need" Type 1 boys (our lab
specimens) as a vehicle for learning and
development for both Domme and boy.


It is both education and preparation. 

The adult submale, also referred to as a boy,
is being prepared for service to (a) perhaps
a woman of the MystressWorld Domme Corps,
the women whom Mystress mentors, or
(b) a woman, who perhaps lives close to him,
who will recognize his newly developed
submissive traits and take action to acquire
him, or (C) perhaps the woman already in his
life, his wife.   Even if she knows nothing
about D&s or his training, the "vacuum
of power" that results from his training often
causes a rise in whatever natural
domme-within that she may possess.

The MystressWorld Domme is free to "take
home" her best students and incorporate
them into her real-life, in person, on a
part-time, regular, or live-in basis.   Many 
are looking for subhusband brides.  The
lives of both are benefited by what we call
the "D&s REALationship".

All aspire to ultimately take one or more
boys into their personal lives on an
"in-person, for life" basis, and many have
done just that. 


Type 2, 3, and 4 persons would simply not
relate to the MystressWorld philosophies.  
Often however, they seek to enroll and
sometimes become angry that they are not
accepted for enrollment.  Most of the
occasional negative commentary comes from
indivduals who have never been enrolled
in the Program !

One such outburst was actually posted on a
"pro-domme" website that included prices for
phone-sex and sessions .. go figure ! 


Peace to all, and welcome to those who feel
the real need to nurture and be nutured. It is
truly wired into their very DNA.


Semper Fem,


Mystress


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